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Why People Keep the Ashes of Their Loved Ones at Home

Nicole Day
By Nicole Day
Nevena Radulović - Editor for Trupoint Memorials
Edited by Nevena Radulović

Updated January 31, 2023.

A black urn on a dark wooden table

Although all life is precious, we all know that someday, it sadly has to come to an end. The passing of a loved one is one of the most difficult times in anyone’s life, as the person we used to talk to and see every day is no longer with us. Even the thought of it is enough to give us goosebumps, which is why it comes as no surprise that many people who've lost their loved ones look for a way to treasure and prolong their memory.

This typically starts with a memorial service and plans to scatter their remains at the deceased’s favorite sea, mountain, or any other special landscape. However, many people decide to keep the ashes of their loved ones at home, as this enables them to feel the closeness of their deceased loved one even though they're no longer there in the physical form. Below, we'll look into this form of remembrance in more detail.

Why Do People Keep Ashes?

Truth be told, there's no right or wrong answer when it comes to the reasoning behind keeping the deceased's ashes at home in an urn. It’s all a matter of an individual's feelings and personal preferences. While a memorial service is crucial, cremation offers an easy way to remember the passed loved one long after the memorial.

Keeping urns at home or wearing urn jewelry provides comfort to many people through the knowledge that they're keeping their deceased loved ones close at all times. Keeping the ashes of your loved one in your home is one of the most sensitive things you could do, as it's a great way to honor them and their life. You can store the ashes in the beautifully constructed cremation urn and display it in your home, or opt for a cremation urn designed for burials—the choice is all yours.

Whether you decide to bury the ashes or keep them in your home, the grieving process is still undeniably difficult and different for everyone. However, over time, things do become easier, and having the ashes at home is a meaningful way to ensure the loved one is never forgotten, as their essence lives on within a unique, handcrafted urn.

Where to Keep Ashes at Home

The easiest and most convenient way to store the ashes of your loved one at home is in a cremation urn. Displaying urns at home is also a special way to pass memories of the deceased down from one generation to another, ensuring that the loved one's legacy lives on. When choosing the right cremation urn, make sure to explore the many urn possibilities like the ones we have to offer—our beautiful, delicate designs are handcrafted with the utmost care, ranging from stunning blue urns to elegant gold urns to peaceful white cremation urns. Not only will one of our urns commemorate your loved one perfectly, but it will also add to the décor of the room in which it's placed. From small keepsake urns to themed urns, artistic urns, religious urns, and much more, our wide range of urns will meet your needs and budget.

You can choose where to keep ashes at home based on what you think the deceased would have liked the most—consider their favorite spaces and designate a spot for the urn accordingly.

Things to Do With the Ashes of a Loved One

Apart from storing your loved one's ashes in a special urn, there are a number of other unique ways to preserve their memory. From turning their ashes into something permanent to special ideas for scattering ashes, find the method that best honors them while helping you through the grieving process. Here are some popular ideas to help you decide:

  • Turn their ashes into jewelry
  • Scatter them at sea
  • Order a cremation portrait
  • Set the ashes into fireworks
  • Bury them in your garden
  • Plant them as a tree
  • Release them with doves
  • Put them into vinyl records
  • Store them in a cuddly toy
  • Turn them into a piece of art.

Final Words

Apart from all the decisions that follow when a loved one passes away, losing anyone close to your heart is emotionally draining. You're left with mere memories of them and the feeling that you'll never get to see that person again. However, by keeping the remains of your loved one in a safe and secure urn at home, you're not only treasuring their memory but also making them an eternal part of your life.

» Treasure your loved one's memory: find the right urn within our extensive range at Trupoint Memorials

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