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Factors to Know When Visiting a Funeral Home

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By Staff Writer
Kirsty Mac Dougall
Edited by Kirsty Macdougall

Published April 7, 2022.

Beautiful flowers and plaques on wall next to black gate leading to funeral home

Visiting a funeral home is the most challenging phase of anyone’s life. On the one side, you are grieving on the death of your loved one and on the other side, you need to carry a list of essential items that you want deceased to wear. Most people often get confused what to bring along to the last journey of deceased. So, in this blog post, we are going to cover all the essential items you need to carry yourself to the funeral home.

Items to Carry

  • Undergarments
  • Clothes
  • Shoes
  • Jewelry
  • Glasses

Other Things to Carry

Apart from all the items mentioned above, you need to carry biographical information of the documents needed by the state authorities. This includes

  • Name
  • Date of birth
  • Social security number
  • Wedding date
  • Full name of parents
  • Birthplaces
  • Employers and schools
  • Name of the physicians
  • Military service details and more.

Other than these, you need to carry copies of cemetery paperwork, life insurance policies or military discharge papers if applicable.

What Happens at the Funeral Home?

When you get through the front door, you will be welcomed warmly by a staff member. Names will be shared and hands shook in friendliness. A few uplifting statements will be advertised.

When educated of the purpose behind your visit, you will be coordinated with the burial service chief's office and inquired as to whether you might want a few refreshments.

Prior to the burial service plan discussion goes extremely far, you will be given a copy of General Price List, Casket Price List, and some other suitable cost related reports. This is done to guarantee consistency with the Federal Trade Commission's Funeral Rule.

The memorial service chief will at that point ask you a number of questions. The discussion is expected to complete two things:

  1. Share exact true to life subtle elements of the perished to help the burial service chief in finishing important documents, and
  2. Go to an understanding about the plans for the burial service, or memorial service.

When to Leave the Funeral Home

This is the most confusing part especially for those who are visiting a funeral for the first time. But relax! The funeral officiant will let you know that funeral service is over. They will ask close friends and immediate family members to leave first. However, the other people wait for the family members and close friends to step out and after them, they will leave the aisle.

Family members and other guests gather in some location for quiet conversation.

If you wish to follow the casket and hearse to the crematory, you’ll be provided great assistance regarding that by the funeral manager. If you want to leave the funeral in the middle, make sure to exit quietly. To show your concern, you can call them in the next week or so. Your constant concern makes them feel delighted that you are thinking about them and concerned regarding their loss.